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       As you try to approach weight issues in a new way, you may find yourself
      fielding questions about how you can be trying to just accept your body
      size rather than lose weight.  How could you handle the following
      Frequently Asked Questions?  
       ? 
      I
      see fat people eating junk food and buying ice cream, so how can you say
      they don�t overeat?   
      
       
      Don�t
      fat people just lack the will power to keep the weight off? 
       
      
       
      What
      about the studies that showed fat people are more likely to eat for
      �external� reasons like the time of day or because there�s food in
      front of them?
        
      Key Size Acceptance Points:
      
       
      Fat
      People Eat the Same as Thin People
      
       
      The
      research shows that fat people don�t eat differently from thin
      people: 
      
       
      
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There
          are fat people who binge, but there are also thin people who binge. 
          
            
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Overall,
          researchers have had a heck of time trying to find any differences, in
          overall quantity, or the type or composition of diet. 
           
          
            
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If
          anyone, of any size, has an eating disorder they would like to get
          help with, that is usually treatable. 
          But the person's weight may or may
          not change with treatment. 
           
          
            
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The
          residue of attitudes and behaviors after dieting/restricting (tendency
          to binge on the foods which were forbidden on the diet,  tendency
          to eat when not hungry or past the point of fullness - "dieting
          detox" as I call it)  is
          not the same as an eating disorder.   
       
        
      Related
      arguments: 
      
       
      Maybe
      we are like breeds of dogs (setpoint
      theory).
      
       
      Can't
      generalize to healthy fat people (people with problems do not
      represent the general population). 
      
       
      Current
      treatments can cause health problems, e.g., dieters are more likely to
      binge; weight cyclers are more likely to develop hypertension; as a
      population, the more we diet, the fatter we get (iatrogenic issue). 
       
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      ? 
      I
      can go along with what you say for plus-size people but isn�t there a
      really high weight where it is too dangerous not to try to lose weight? 
      
       
      Don�t
      fat people just lack the will power to keep the weight off? 
      
      
       
      What
      about the studies that showed fat people are more likely to eat for
      �external� reasons like the time of day or because there�s food in
      front of them? 
        
      Key Size Acceptance Points:
      
       
      Current
      treatments can cause health problems, e.g., dieters are more
      likely to binge; weight cyclers are more likely to develop hypertension;
      as a population, the more we diet, the fatter we get.
      
       
      
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The
          treatments we have been prescribing for fat people may in fact be
          making their problems worse, and may in fact be causing some of their
          problems.  
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It
          turns out that fatness is not the best predictor of binging; rather,
          dieting/restricting is (see Herman/Polivy).
          
            
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Dieting
          teaches you how to ignore your internal appetite/satiety cues,
          undermining the very mechanism that helps people eat normally.
          
          
          
            
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In
          populations where people diet less, even when they are heavier than
          the "ideal" their health and longevity is better than
          populations which are dieting more, though it is hard to tell what the
          causal mechanisms are (because they are likely to suffer less
          discrimination based on body size which leads people to diet) (see
          Roseta Study).
          
            
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Healthcare
          providers are supposed to DO NO HARM. 
          If their own research says that 95% of the time their
          intervention will fail, and if it does fail, the
          person will feel worse (physically and emotionally), then how can they
          justify it?
          
            
       
        
      Related
      arguments:
      
       
      No
      proven treatment to change weight permanently: SHOW ME THE DATA!
      
       
      We
      shouldn�t �prescribe� for fat people what we diagnose as eating
      disordered in thin people 
      
       
      Individual
      health risks vary 
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      ? 
      But
      isn�t being fat unhealthy?
      
       
      I
      can go along with what you say for plus-size people but isn�t there a
      weight where it really is dangerous?
      
       
      Doesn�t
      being fat cause people to get depressed?
      
       
      Wouldn�t
      it solve the problems fat people face from discrimination if they just
      lost weight?
      
       
      Aren�t
      you being too permissive with fat people? 
      Isn�t it like trying to �accept� that you�ll always be a
      smoker?
      
       
      I
      know someone who lost 100 pounds by dieting (or weight loss surgery, or
      exercise) and she feels great.
      
       
      I
      know someone who lost 100 pounds by dieting (or weight loss surgery, or
      exercise) and she kept it off 6 years and she feels great. 
      
       
      All
      I know is that when I eat less and exercise I lose weight so why can�t
      fat people?
      
       
      Don�t
      fat people just lack the will power to keep the weight off? 
      
      
       
      Don�t
      fat people have problems they should get therapy for?
      
       
      What
      can I say if someone is unhappy with their weight and wants to lose
      weight?
      
       
        
      Key Size Acceptance Points:
      
       
      No
      proven treatment to change weight permanently: 
      SHOW ME THE DATA!
      
       
      The
      1992 National Institutes of Health (NIH) Technology Conference published a
      list of recommendations for consumers considering weight loss programs. They
      were not aware of any programs which could answer these criteria, nor have
      any programs complied since.  The
      report states:  "In
      evaluating a weight loss method or program, one should not be distracted
      by anectodal 'success' stories or by advertising claims. The information
      that should be obtained includes: 
      
        - The percentage of
          all participants who complete it.
 
        - The percentage of
          those completing the program who achieve various degrees of weight
          loss.
 
        - The proportion of
          that loss that is maintained at 1,3 and 5 years.
 
        - The number of
          participants who experienced negative medical effects as well as their
          kind and severity."
 
       
      If we
      do not have a treatment that works, then what we prescribe is all
      experimental and should be labelled as such.  
      In
      the few number of people for whom weightloss is maintained, people do not
      necessarily live longer anyway and there is some evidence they die earlier
      than people of a higher, stable weight.
      
       
      If we
      do not have a treatment that works, it really doesn't make sense to go on
      blaming the victim.  Why do
      scientists/clinicians keep doing the same intervention expecting different
      results?  Say it were somehow
      true that fat people lacked will power, would it make sense to expect them
      to diet for the rest of their lives? 
      The healthcare community's responsibility is to come up with
      interventions that work that make fat people's lives better. 
      
       
        
      Related
      arguments:
        
       
      Current
      treatments can cause health problems, e.g., dieters are more
      likely to binge; weight cyclers are more likely to develop hypertension;
      as a population, the more we diet, the fatter we get (iatrogenic issue).
      
       
      Fitness
      is more important than weight
      
       
      Individual
      health risks vary
      
       
      We
      shouldn�t �prescribe� for fat people what we diagnose as eating
      disordered in thin people
      
       
      �Success�
      is taking care of your body 
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      ? 
      If
      we can�t help fat people get thinner then what should I do to help them?
      
       
      What
      should I do if someone has lost weight and expects me to compliment her?
      
       
      What can I say if someone is unhappy with their
      weight and wants to lose weight? 
       
       
      Key Size Acceptance Points: 
      
       
      �Success�
      is taking care of your body
      
       
      Stop
      reading someone's "success" from their weight. 
      How many thin, smoking, sedentary, junk-food-eaters get harrassed
      about their health?
      
       
      We
      don't have a weight loss intervention that works, so how do we help make
      fat people's lives better? 
      
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Focus
          on the day-to-day decisions to get good, tasty fuel and fun physical
          activity, have friends, express yourself. 
          These are the elements of a good life no matter what a person's
          body size.  People of all
          sizes do it and should be recognized for it.  
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Notice
          how people are feeling and the quality of their lives rather than
          their weight.
          
            
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Practice
          "weight neutrality" - focus on what you would focus on if
          weight was not an issue (in the culture, or to the person), whether
          you are a therapist, a friend, a clinician, or family member.   
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Work
          to change the discrimination and weight preoccupation in our culture
          
            
       
        
      Related
      arguments:
      
       
      Fitness
      is more important than weight
      
       
      Medical
      discrimination causes health problems 
      Social
      discrimination causes health problems 
      
       
      We
      shouldn�t �prescribe� for fat people what we diagnose as eating
      disordered in thin people
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      ? 
      Doesn�t
      being fat cause people to get depressed? 
      
       
      Don�t
      fat people just lack the will power to keep the weight off? 
       
      
       
      Don�t
      fat people have problems they should get therapy for? 
      
       
      What
      can I say if someone is unhappy with their weight and wants to lose
      weight?
       
       
      
      
       
      Key Size Acceptance Points:
      
       
      Fat
      people do not have more emotional problems than thin people
      
       
      
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Studies
          which have tried to find psychological differences in fat populations
          have failed.  
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The
          few studies which have found differences are often of clinical
          populations (people who are self-selected because they already have
          problems) and are thus not representative of the general fat
          population.  
        - 
          
There
          are no "obese" personality types/traits  
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There
          are people who have problems with body image who are fat but there is
          an equal number who are thin - it is not about body size  
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It
          is remarkable that there is not a higher incidence of depression, etc.
          because fat people are members of a stigmatized group. We should be
          studying why they are not depressed, i.e., how they are
          psychologically resilient.  
       
       
      Related arguments:
      
       
      Can't
      generalize to healthy fat people (people with problems do not
      represent the general population).
      
       
      Fat
      People Eat the Same as Thin People
      
       
      Social
      discrimination causes health problems
      
       
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      ? 
      Wouldn�t
      it solve the problems fat people face from discrimination if they just
      lost weight? 
      
       
      Even
      if fat people maintain a higher body weight and don�t eat more,
      shouldn�t they eat as little as they need to to be thin? 
      Maybe they shouldn�t eat like normal people.
      
       
      What can I say if someone is unhappy with their
      weight and wants to lose weight?
        
      Key Size Acceptance Points:
      
       
      We
      shouldn�t �prescribe� for fat people what we diagnose as eating
      disordered in thin people
      
       
      If
      keeping track of everything you eat, having rigid categories of
      "good" and "bad" foods, not eating in response to body
      cues, having your mood/feeling of control/"success" depend on
      the number on the scale, etc., is bad for thin people, why do we recommend
      it for fat people?  
      
       
      
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Look at the descriptions of the "maintainance
          strategies" of the 3% "successful" weight loss
          maintainers and in many respects it is difficult to distinguish them
          from the practices and preoccupations of eating disorder patients.
          
            
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Therapists
          usually challenge the magical thinking associated with weight
          ("My life will be so much better if I can lose weight") when
          a thin person displays it, but agree with it when a fat person
          expresses it.  
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We
          need to practice "weight neutrality" - looking at people as
          individuals rather than having their weight dictate our actions.  
       
           
       Related
      arguments:
      
       
      Maybe
      we are like breeds of dogs 
      (setpoint theory).
      
       
      Medical
      discrimination causes health problems  
      Fat
      people do not have more
      emotional problems than thin people 
       
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      ? 
      But
      isn�t being fat unhealthy? 
      
       
      I
      can go along with what you say for plus-size people but isn�t there a
      weight where it really is dangerous? 
      
      
       
      Key Size Acceptance Points: 
      Individual
      health risks vary: The argument about
      the health risks of obesity is much more controversial than is typically
      portrayed.  
      
        - Correlations
          are there for certain health problems at higher weights, but let's
          remember that correlation is not causality. There are also some health
          advantages to weighing more, including less likelihood of
          osteoporosis.
 
        - For any given individual, fat may
          be a health problem or not. Maybe we're like breeds of dogs.
          St. Bernards are never going to be greyhounds, even if starve
          themselves. And maybe they don't live as long, but we seem to be able
          to let dogs have their breeds and not shoehorn them all into an
          "ideal" height and weight or BMI chart. If you're a
          chihauhau who is 5 pounds over your genetic weight, maybe that is
          health-threatening. If you are a Rottweiler, who can even tell?
 
       
      Medical
      discrimination causes health problems 
      
        - 
          
More
          fat people are poor (fat women make the same amount less than thin
          women as short men vs. tall men), and more of them do not have any
          medical insurance at all because the insurance companies won't cover
          them, or charge exorbitant rates to cover them.
          
            
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Research
          is currently underway to document the avoidance of medical care
          by fat people who don't believe that they'll be treated for their
          problems without a weight-loss lecture, so their problems may be more
          advanced by the time they see a doctor.   
       
      Social
      discrimination causes health problems 
      
        - 
          
The
          stigma against fat people is profound and stressful, and the same
          diseases that are associated with being in other oppressed groups
          (high blood pressure, for example) may be caused by social
          discrimination.  
          
            
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In
          the Roseta study, an Italian-American community where fatness was not
          a bad thing, people had lower incidences of the health problems
          usually correlated with fatness.  
       
        
      Related
      arguments: 
      
       
      Current
      treatments can cause health problems, e.g., dieters are more
      likely to binge; weight cyclers are more likely to develop hypertension;
      as a population, the more we diet, the fatter we get (iatrogenic issue).
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      ? 
      But
      isn�t being fat unhealthy? 
      
       
      If
      we can�t help fat people get thinner then what should I do to help them? 
      
       
      What
      can I say if someone is unhappy with their weight and wants to lose
      weight? 
      
      
       
      Key Size Acceptance Points:
      
       
      Fitness
      is more important
      than weight 
      
        - 
          
See
          Steven Blair's work and the other long-term, massive studies from the
          Cooper aerobics center.  Fat,
          active men lived longer and were healthier
          than thin, sedentary men.  
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If
          we helped people of all sizes integrate more pleasurable
          physical activity into their lives we would do everyone a favor.  
        - 
          
By
          focusing on exercise for weight loss we set people up to give up if
          they don't become thin. 
           
            
       
      Related
      arguments:
      
       
      Current
      treatments can cause health problems, e.g., dieters are more
      likely to binge; weight cyclers are more likely to develop hypertension;
      as a population, the more we diet, the fatter we get (iatrogenic issue).
      
       
      No
      proven treatment to change weight permanently: SHOW ME THE DATA!
      
       
      �Success�
      is taking care of your body
      
       
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      ? 
      Doesn�t
      being fat cause people to get depressed? 
      I
      see fat people eating junk food and buying ice cream, so how can you say
      they don�t overeat?  
      
       
      Don�t
      fat people have problems they should get therapy for?
      
       
      What about the studies that showed fat people are
      more likely to eat for �external� reasons like the time of day or
      because there�s food in front of them? 
        
      Key Size Acceptance Points:
      
       
      Can't
      generalize to healthy fat people (people with problems do not
      represent the general population).
      
       
      
        - 
          
Studies
          of people seeking help, or examples of people with problems, do not
          tell you about the general population. The �clinical� population
          of fat people (those that seek mental health services) is not
          representative of the general population, just as thin people who seek
          help are not representative of all thin people.  
        - 
          
The
          general population of fat people has no associated personality type or
          trait, no higher incidence of depression or mental health problems
          (which is rather extraordinary given the discrimination they face).
          
            
       
      
      Related
      arguments: 
      Fat
      People Eat the Same as Thin People 
      
       
      Fat
      people do not
      have more emotional problems than thin people
      
       
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      ? 
      Aren�t
      you being too permissive with fat people? 
      Isn�t it like trying to �accept� that you�ll always be a
      smoker? 
      
       
      I
      know someone who lost 100 pounds by dieting (or weight loss surgery, or
      exercise) and she feels great. 
      
       
      I
      know someone who lost 100 pounds by dieting (or weight loss surgery, or
      exercise) and she kept it off 6 years and she feels great.  
      
       
      All
      I know is that when I eat less and exercise I lose weight so why can�t
      fat people? 
      
       
      Even
      if fat people maintain a higher body weight and don�t eat more,
      shouldn�t they eat as little as they need to to be thin? 
      Maybe they shouldn�t eat like normal people.
      
       
      What
      about the studies that say being fat is a killer disease? 
      
      
       
      Key Size Acceptance Points: 
      
       
      Maybe we are like
      breeds of dogs 
      (setpoint theory). 
      
        - 
          
For
          any given individual, fat may be a health problem or
          not.  
        - 
          
Maybe
          we're like breeds of dogs. St. Bernards are never going
          to be greyhounds, even if starve themselves. And maybe they don't live
          as long, but we seem to be able to let dogs have their breeds and not
          shoehorn them all into an "ideal" height and weight or BMI
          chart. If you're a chihauhau who is 5 pounds over your genetic weight,
          maybe that is health-threatening. If you are a Rottweiler, who can
          even tell?  
        - 
          
What
          may be more relevant to health is not someone's absolute weight, but
          rather their weight relative to their own genetic destiny. This
          would explain the wide disparity in findings among some studies, a few
          of which show health problems with very little "overweight"
          and others which show no major problems for a wide range of weights,
          or more problems with being too thin.
           
            
       
        
      Related
      arguments:
      
       
      Individual
      health risks vary
      
       
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